Sunday, August 8, 2010

Baby Boomer Dating - Guys Need Advice Too

If you are a Baby Boomer guy you don't need to feel left out when it comes to getting some great advice about how to attract and date a Baby Boomer lady. Sometimes it can come as a bit of a wake up call for many Boomer males, that the reason why they aren't getting the date is not because of the ladies that they are meeting, it is due to the way that the Boomer guy is projecting himself.

If you're over 50 and a Baby Boomer guy then you can be sure that there are a few things that Boomer ladies are telling me that they need from you in order to find you date-worthy and then go on to be partner-material. I deal with mostly Boomer ladies and I can tell you, they are desperately wanting to meet guys from their own generation, but they don't want to settle for someone who is too much hard work.

So how do you project yourself to attract a Boomer lady? The number one attribute that my Boomer ladies tell me they find attractive in a date is a Boomer males confidence. If you can portray yourself as being confident, not second guessing yourself and make choices and decisions without prompting or coercion then the Boomer ladies will find this one of the most attractive features regardless of your perhaps receding hairline or extra few pounds.

You may already know that you can actually trick your mind into thinking that you are actually a confident and positive individual. Interestingly, your mind will actually convince itself that that is indeed true. So, if you were to "play" that you were all of these things then it wouldn't be long until your mind actually believed it. We also know that a positive and happy person is far more attractive to others than those that display the opposite in demeanour.

If you think you may need some extra help and perhaps "polish" on your dating technique, then I offer you the same guide that I direct my Boomer ladies to read. I have included the link for it below. Sometimes we need to put ourselves out there into a situation where we can pretend to be sometimes the complete opposite to who we have been feeling we are. This alone can spark some good feelings and vibes within you that may be able to heat up and start a whole new chapter for you.

Conversation Chemistry Learn how to put an end to communication blunders with the opposite sex, and discover how you can use powerful body language in ways that will create, build and maintain unstoppable attraction.

Piper S. McKenzie is a Relationship and Dating mentor. She has been writing about making intimate human connections for over a decade. Learn more here Winning Relationships

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